Family arguments.

I want peoples opinions on this. Text me please.

My family has split. The main split is between my mother and the rest of us.

She accuses my father of not being the man she married. She claims she no longer loves him. And my father says she is being stupid.

The thing they're arguing about:

-children.

My mother can no longer have any, but she wants more and is desperate to adopt one. My father doesn't want to. He doesn't want to spend the rest of his life looking after small children.

She has decided to blank me, and won't talk to me. She has barely spoken to any of us all day and spent a large amount of it lying in her bedroom, alone. She wants to go home, back to the UK, alone. She's currently sitting outside the house, alone. I've asked her what the problem is, but she won't comment. I've asked her why she's blanking me, and she's said she's not, which just isn't true. I'm trying to be nice. And i don't like her picking on my dad. She has no right to be horrid to him. He has an opinion, and he doesn't want more kids. but i fear that she will not get her wish, and therefore they will split. Or she will get her wish and my dad will be unhappy for another 18 years.

My sister has told her her opinion, which is that she doesnt' think that she should have more kids, and that if my mother loved either my sister or myself, then she wouldn't have more, and that she would live in the knowledge that she has already raised 2 kids. I do not love my mother, she is over protective, and gives me no room to breath. It is an irony, that sometimes a hug, something i'm going to use to resemble safety, if too hard, can suffocate the recipiant. She has squeezed to hard, and therefore i cannot wait to fly the nest.

She just came and attacked my dad. And i attacked her back. She has no right to bully my family. She apparently she's ahd lots of misscarriages in the last ten years, she should be happy with what she has. She has no right to be so overbearing.

Apparently my dad wanted them once. But he no longer feels that way. She can't change things that didn't happen. She just can't.

I'm worked up and feel shit. I'm honestly never going to talk to her ever again. She ruined my life, and she's ruined my family. The perfect family that was meant to be for everyone. The one that is now ruined.

I need a place to stay. We maybe coming home early.
I'm evicting myself. Please someone take me in.

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